In the
book Cry the Beloved Country the
main character Stephen must face many of his worst fears. For a parent the
one thing you hope, is that your child will do what you thought
them and be a good person. Sometimes you must let them go and have
faith that they will do just that. For Stephen and his wife that was not
the case. Stephen finds out in the book that his son, has done something
so evil and vile it is often unforgivable.
Arthur
Jarvis is also a father that had little idea of his son’s doings at the
beginning of the book. When he finds out about what his son has been doing for
the people he once believed to be less worthy of himself, he feels the same way
as Stephen, confused, fearful, and hurt. The words that James Jarvis wrote
about his father were less the flattering.
Both
of these fathers must make the choice to forgive their sons, but they
must also find it in them to forgive themselves. Stephen must not fault
himself in the mistakes of his son. Jarvis must try to understand why his son
said the things he had, and remember that his son laved him in the end.
Looking
at the history of South Africa it is easy to see that there was a lot of
forgiving that had to happen before the peace that now exists in the country.
Anne Apple Baum, a writer for the Washington Post website, tells of her
experience when she traveled to South Africa before things had changed there.
She talks about her confusion when after she asked for directions to a local
black school that was only a few miles away, and no one had ever heard of it.
She confuses how surprised she was at how different life was from in the
states. (Applebaum)
She
later accounts on her astonishments when she returned almost 20 years later,
and found the two races that were so violently separated before, to be living
together in as if the past had never existed.
This
country is not the first to have this kind of racial tension in their history,
but they are one of the best to handle it. Even looking at the history of this
great country, many more lives were lost in the struggle for equality. Despite
the success that this country has had it still has far to go.
In the
book it talks about the hope that the people will be able to forgive the hate
that has been directed to them. An
example of the difficulty of this forgiveness is shown in Stephens’s decision
to forgive Absalom and take in his child as his own. Not only does Stephen let
go of the past, he changes what is to come for Absalom’s wife and son. This is
the forgiveness that this country had to apply in order to heal. They had to
not only let go of the past, but also pave the way for those who came after
them.
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